what IF ?

captured by the most terrible two words ,What If ?

that was a line from the movie the time machine . it got stuck in my head since I first heard it , I thought about that question a lot and what could be the possible answers , it's countless , the possibilities concerning a certain issue , it is what makes us move on , go forward , give us motivation . on the other side , it's the source of our fears , it prevent us from making actions or take important decisions , it hold us back . wether it moves you on or holds you back , it's up to you , it's your decision you can take risks and go for what you believe will make things a lot better or you can do nothing and stay on the safe side and thats depend on the situation you are handling , you weigh the good possibilities and the worst scenario that could happen and according to this you decide . the bottom of line you always should look at the bigger picture , enlarge the zone of your thinking , this is how you solve your problems easily and avoid further troubles .