Good bey old me

Apart with my thoughts,I started to think of you
what you means to me and all what we came through
you say you understand all what I have to say
may be you do , it doesn't matter any way
it's the destiny for us to come apart
but it's okay , I'm glad we made it that far
now it's time to go and just make it right
I'll be just fine , I'll get used to the nights
from where I stand, I can see a clear view
of all what we are to be, all what I can do
my eyes are you staring at my mirrors
telling it secrets to make a better image
my sanity I can not doubt, it's all I have to trust
you and me seperated , trust me it's a must
so just turn around, please let go of me
if you just walk away, you won't hinders me
I need to be alone to build my new self
to stand against this world , the world of materialism
this realization that came a little bit too late
I'm glad it's here now at my life's gate
I surf my ocean of emotions to see if I'd miss you
but I went so deep to realize I won't even remember you
as long as I remember you , you will always be my other half
so good bey my best friend I've ever had .

Moleosophy , mole theory

The study of moles is called Moleosophy.
The location of a mole, its size, shape and colour can be interpreted as indicators of your character.
Armpits A mole under the left arm is indicative of great struggle early in life, which is, however, well rewarded. Wealth makes later years equally pleasurable. A mole under the right arm shows that one needs to be alert and cautious in matters of security. Back People like this are unreliable, and with them one must ensure that all facts are available before one enters any sort of negotiation for any enterprise.

Breast A mole on the right breast is indicative of laziness, which may affect family life. You need to be assertive about your needs to be able to enjoy the love and comfort of the children. A mole on the left breast belongs to active and energetic people, who generally get what they want in life.
Cheek A mole on either cheek indicates a serious and studious person who has no interest in material pleasures.
Chin A mole on either side of the chin is indicative of people who are affectionate and caring. These people adapt easily to any situation. They love travelling and respect the law of the land. They are also dedicated and conscientious workers and willingly accept responsibilities.
Ear People who are born with a mole on their ear are generally considered lucky.
Elbow People who have moles on their elbow love to travel. They are adventurous and spirited.
Eye If the mole is located on the outer corner of the eye, this indicates that the person is honest, reliable and forthright.
Eyebrow If a mole is located on the right eyebrow, it signifies that these people will have a highly active life and will be successful in all ventures.
Finger People who have a mole on any finger turn out to be dishonest and tend to grossly exaggerate.
Foot People with a mole on their foot are easy going and laid back. They need to exercise to stay healthy.
Forehead People who have a mole on their forehead will be prosperous and well settled in life.
Hand Those people who have a mole on their hand are talented and make a success of their lives.
Heel People who possess a mole on their heel make enemies easily and are prone to losing friends.
Hip A mole on any part of the hip except the buttocks signifies that these people are contented, resilient and spirited.
Knee If you have a mole on your right knee, it implies that you are a friendly person. A mole on the left knee signifies that these people lead an extravagant lifestyle.
Lips People with a mole on their lips always aspire to get ahead in life.
Neck If the mole is on the front of the neck, it signifies unexpected good fortune. If it is on either side of the neck, it indicates an unreasonable temperament. A mole on the back of the neck indicates a person's desire to lead a simple life.
Nose A mole on the nose belongs to a person who will be a sincere friend and a hard-working individual.
Shoulder A mole on the right shoulder indicates a sensible, industrious individual.
Wrist A mole on the wrist indicates that the person is frugal, ingenious and dependable.

that's so funny ...

INFP photos What a collection : D

http://www.enfpforum.com/ENFPWiki/INFPPhotos.aspx

Writing Process of the INFP

INFPs work best in a quiet environment where they won’t be interrupted. They like autonomy so they can perfect their writing according to their own high standards without having to follow someone else’s schedule.

INFPs prefer writing about personal topics. You may lose your creative drive if the subject matter isn’t meaningful to you. If so, try taking an angle that allows you to write about your feelings on the topic. If you’re an INFP technical writer, look for ways to connect with readers by anticipating and meeting their needs.

INFPs have a keen insight into the nature of things. Their prose often conveys startling images of mood or atmosphere rather than objects. They enjoy complexity and can patiently unravel dense material. They are able to see many sides of an argument and so may have difficulty reaching a conclusion. During the writing process, they may frequently pause to consider alternatives or to seek connections between seemingly disparate things.

Potential Blind Spots of the INFP

INFPs strive for elegance in language. Avoid polishing the work too soon. INFPs tend to write long, meandering first drafts, so you’ll likely need to synthesize and cut material later. Save the search for that perfect metaphor until the revision stage.

INFPs communicate their values and personal vision through their writing. They search for the meaning behind the facts, and so may consider the facts themselves to be of marginal importance. This is not true, however, for most of your readers. Avoid writing in purely abstract terms. During revision, add concrete details. Appeal to the five senses. Include statistics. Incorporate other points of view for balance. Make sure your research backs up your conclusions.

INFPs tend to be sensitive to criticism; nevertheless, consider showing your work to a trusted friend or colleague before you begin the final draft. This feedback may be especially helpful in focusing your work and ensuring that it includes enough facts to sway your audience to your position.

source : http://andreajwenger.com/2009/08/15/the-infp-writing-personality/

MBTI Types Prayers, pretty funny and revealing!

• INFP: God, help me to finish everything I sta
• ENFP: God, help me to keep my mind on one th -Look a bird- ing at a time.
• ENTP: Lord help me follow established procedures today. On second thought, I'll settle for a few minutes
• INTP: Lord help me be less independent, but let me do it my way.
• ESFP: God help me to take things more seriously, especially parties and dancing.
• ISTP: God help me to consider people's feelings, even if most of them ARE hypersensitive.
• ESTP: God help me to take responsibility for my own actions, even though they're usually NOT my fault.
• ISFP: Lord, help me to stand up for my rights .
• ENTJ: Lord, help me slow downandnotrushthroughwhatIdo
• INFJ: Lord help me not be a perfectionist. (did I spell that correctly?)
• ENFJ: God help me to do only what I can and trust you for the rest.
• INTJ: Lord keep me open to others' ideas, WRONG though they may be
• ESTJ: God, help me to not try to RUN everything.
• ESFJ: God give me patience, and I mean right NOW
• ISFJ: Lord, help me to be more laid back and help me to do it EXACTLY right.
• ISTJ: Lord help me to relax about insignificant details beginning tomorrow at 11:41.23 a.m. EST.

INFP and Deppresion

When it comes to Depression, I found that INFP is the most likely of all the types to report suicidal thoughts in college (MBTI Manual, 1998) as well as having the highest level of depression of the 16 types (Shelton, MBTI Applications, 1996). From McMan's Depression and Bipolar Web, he conducted an informal poll and posted the findings here: Taking it Personally. In it he found that more than 80% of the respondents are introverts, when they only account for less than 30% of the general population. Idealists (NF's) are also over-represented, at around 40% (but only comprise 8% of general population).

McMan mentioned a study by David Janowsky MD of the University of North Carolina in 2002, where he found a preponderance of introverts and feelers among a depressed population (74 percent introverts and 84 percent feelers).

So, what have we learnt?
• IN's are a lonely bunch
• NP's are most likely to be diagnosed ADD
• I's, NF's and F's are predominant among the depressed

Hey, who has all of the above? INFP! Of course, this doesn't mean that all INFP's end up being depressed ADDers, or that all those diagnosed with ADD and depression will be of type INFP. Just that there's a strong correlation between the type and the respective "disorders". Some people are biologically depressed due to chemical imbalance. Some type of ADD are caused by brain defects. But studies show that less than 10% of depression is biologically caused. So what causes depression? Stress (among other factors). Feeling the need to "fit in" a world dominated by ESTJ/SJ's, or at least a world where ESTJ type is encouraged (many U.S. presidents are ESTJ's, including George W. Bush). Also, a lot of gifted and creative kids are mis-diagnosed with ADD, simply because they are misunderstood.

I think we need more understanding all around. To understand ourselves better, and to understand each other better. For the "majority" to understand that the "minority" are not just "trying to be different", they are different. And for those who are different to understand that it's OK to be different. If we can try to understand how the various personality types function, the different ways they view the world, the different things that make them tick, we can get along much better and have more meaningful relationships.

http://blog.cybette.com/archives/000089.html

INFP = ADD

This is taken from Born to Explore - What is ADD? Attention Deficit Disorder, or ADD/ADHD, is a psychological term applied to anyone who meets the DSM IV diagnostic criteria for impulsivity, hyperactivity and/or inattention. The diagnostic criteria are subjective and include behavior which might be caused by a wide variety of factors, ranging from brain defects to allergies to giftedness. ADD is really more of a description rather than a specific disease. However, there is a tendancy for people to over-simplify ADD and view it as a singular defect or disease. Not true!

There are two major types of ADD at this time (this aspect of ADD keeps evolving): ADD with hyperactivity (the traditional type of ADD, also known as ADHD) and ADD without hyperactivity ("inattentive" type).

One common misconception about ADD is that many people assume ADDers cannot pay attention. This is completely false. In fact, ADDers are known to "hyperfocus" on anything which captures their attention, to the point where it is difficult to get their attention. It is true, however, that a higher degree of interest is necessary before the ADDer can pay attention.

The MBTI types that are most likely to be diagnosed ADD are: INFP, ENFP, ENTP, and INTP. You might notice that they are all of the type xNxP. From ADD and Personality Type, Rachael Hawkins wrote that there is increasing evidence to suggest that NP personality types are overrepresented in the ADD/ADHD population. Most of life is SJ; great if you are SJ, OK if you are SP or NJ, really crap if you are NP. Some characteristics of NP's may include: procrastination, divergent thinking, many interests, scatter-brained, get bored easily with something that doesn't interest them, extremely focused with something that does interest them, daydream a lot... etc. (hmm, seem to describe me perfectly). Often, these are also the descriptions of ADD behaviour.

http://blog.cybette.com/archives/000089.html

fact about life

drifting towards a conclusion of how things should be
roses must age and make a truce with bees
the sun comes and goes leaving us behind
giving the moon a chance to tell us when it would shine
it takes time to rise again to erase wonder of our minds
teaching us a fact known since the begining of time
nothing stays the same, everything should change
we live in a world of variables where the only constant is the change

My if world

Escaping to the if world , where everything is possible
Changing my reality and live the impossible
Waving my magic stick so every wish come true
Sprinkling the fairy dust , believing this magic will do
Smelling vanilla scent , I reach imagination land
Here with my illusion beyond what you understand
In if world where puppets come to life
Where nymphs on rivers waiting to take a dive
Through this new frame of vision where everything is bright
I see smiles all around shinning in the light
Through this rose coloured glass lens where everything shines and glows
I see boys and girls waiting thier turns in the long adventure rows
In this blue horizon where all the ground is green
That's only seperated by the quiet water streams
I wave my magic stick and sprinkle the fairy dust
To spread the white hope, ,that in here is a must
I wipe away all tears from the crying faces
Healing all the broken promises that were once taken
In the if world , wearing your skin alone makes you complete
Everything in here you own , there is nothing else you need
Where all the boys are kings and all the girls are queens
Wearing purple gowns , daring the time stream
If you ever needed me just call out my name
In imagination land you will find me on a task of building a way
That will connect the fantasy world to reality where you live
Reality that can be changed with the power of the word if

so far this is my favourite poem I've ever written

It was a dream

I went to bed at night
with one thought in mind
am I going to die tonight
I raise my hands and pray please god let me live another day
there is still a lot of parts I wanna play
sleep captures me and say in my world you are away
in this shroud you shall stay
bright light I see that nearly blinded me
I try to rub my eyes but my hands I can't see
my hands are behind my back, chained by a rough rope
I'm down on my knees now trying to feel the road
I hear heavy steps coming along the way
with eyes making holes in the back of my neck and not going away
I turn and see nothing but a crow flying over my head
maybe all this will go away,I don't have a hint
I close my eyes and open them to find myself stuck
in the same time same place , this is my bad luck
what you see is true , a tall man speaks
dressed in black gown with only hands it reveals
wearing velvet gloves trying to reach my face
follow me I shall get you out of this place
I follow him and find myself enfolded by the night
walking on dead corpses and the ground I can't find
at a silver gate we stopped to enter a new place
my statue stands in the midst , I'm inside a maze
drowned by my tears, shattered visions appear
the heavy steps are back surrounding me with fear
I'm your wasted time look at me to see
how incomplete you made me , forgiveness you can't seek
is you all I have left ?
sorrowfully no , I'm here to give you a gift
today is a present enjoy it while you can
to lose it too you can't withstand
I promise I'll make the most of it all
there will be no wasted time at all
I wake up to find myself in bed
thinking about the gift I'm about to get
thank god for this new day
don't waste it and say it's just another day